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Sex Drive (2008)
IMDB rating: 7.00
Plot: A high school senior drives cross-country with his best friends to hook up with a babe he met online.
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Sex Drive
Directors: Anders Sean
Actors: Zuckerman Josh,Duke Clark,Marsden James,Green Seth,McDermott Charlie,Young Mark L.,Petersen Cole,Sheridan Dave,Cudlitz Michael,Comedy,
Waiting for marriage to have sex?
I’m really confused and on the verge of making a very huge decision in my life and need all the advice possible. This isn’t an attempt at trolling, so if you take it as one, get the hell out of here!
While I was sitting here thinking about why I’m waiting until marriage to have sex, I realised that I’m not sure if marriage is really what I want after witnessing so much negativity both here and in real life by particularly women (who are thought to be more chaste — yeah right!) in regards to my decision. I wanted a girl with the same values, but it doesn’t look reasonable that any exist. They want to sleep around and take advantage of as many guys as they can is what it looks like, and then settle down and hope they won’t be cheated on/abused/outright abandoned/etc (good luck with that one, ladies!) So I’ve pretty much said f*** you to marriage entirely. The only thing I really want out of it now after witnessing all of this, has seemingly become just to have sex. I have lost all hope and also my respect for women, and now I think of them as merely objects and that it’s better to just take advantage of as many of them as I can. I had so many opportunities but something always stopped me. And what worries me is everything is telling me to do it, to take advantage of those opportunities, but some small voice inside of me, despite the overwhelming negativity that I have witnessed, is telling me to hold on for something better and I just don’t know why. It’s driving me up the wall.
Statistics, logic, rationality, and my emotions are screaming at the top of their lungs to take advantage of as many women as possible and never settle down, and become just like the other males in society. But for some reason I don’t want to become like the rest of them, though I also find absolutely no incentive for me to wait any more. All of the attractive women are long since not virgins and that’s what I really wanted…to find a girl as attractive, successful and physically fit as I am with an excellent personality, and settle down. Now I just KNOW (not believe) that such don’t exist nowadays and probably never have. All I ever wanted besides having a successful career, was a happy marriage, children and a faithful wife. But it doesn’t seem like I’m allowed that now am I? Church girls, for the few that are attractive, are incredibly easy while non-religious girls or girls of other religions are just as easy, but lack any sense of conscience it seems.
I don’t want to settle down with some used up trash (and hopefully if she exists, she views me the same way in this case as insecure as this may seem) — which is the only other alternative. I also don’t want to end up living alone because of this (so in other words, it’s a ‘Bachelor’s life’ for me), so I am thinking, possibly irrationally do to all of this overwhelming info that’s causing some severe self-doubt it me, that it’s better to go with option one and just sleep around like everyone else but on the other hand not marry so I don’t have to share my income with some vile b**** that will use me and leave (which is all too common in 2010).
So I really need some help. I am between a rock and some really hard place, and it feels like the temperature here is only getting hotter. I need all the help I can get, especially SPIRITUAL help.
I’ve furthermore seen a few males relate to me already, so it appears as if there are a lot of us that are thinking this way. No females though. Maybe more can relate or provide some kind of certainty? Because this tremendous doubt is eating me alive, just as it is getting to them.
- Miss Awesome, bah you’re defining more problems for me. Let’s not go there. I don’t want to play that counting/who’s better/who was better/insecurity game. That’s like telling me she’s already cheated and ran off with the guy. Forget it. Apparently, I’m too judgmental for that.
Mr. Fix it, you ever consider a society based on YOUR view is what caused the 80% sexual incompatibility? I agreed up until that point with what you wrote, until you presented that flaunty bit of ‘logic’. That would also mean sex doesn’t mean a thing to any of you, it’s just something to do to kill time, or for fun — whatever you define it as. Sorry, but no. Maybe it is in your world, but to me it still means something.
Your throughts of women all togeter is not that great, you are too judgemental and need to stop that.Every women will have something you don’t like about her, you’ve probably had your soulmate in your face at one point and didn’t even realize it because of your judgemental nature.Remember, you aren’t a perfect little bloom eather.
Viva Glam | Jan 10, 2010
I didn’t read all of your question because it was long..I’m a girl and i think a person should wait for marriage to sleep with someone, for various reason. I’m a christian thats one, but also because what if you caught a disiese from someone you thought you loved and then they left you. Your stuck with that disiese and I wouldn’t want someone who has already slept with so many different people. The so many more reasonsss.
BeyondBored | Jan 10, 2010
I no this sounds bad but don’t wait. I myself have figured that marriage is not for me and its best just to fool around with women. I guess the many reason for not wanting to get married is ive been with women who r cheating on there husbands, and i don’t want to be one of those husbands that is being cheated on.
Bigdaddyrdog | Jan 10, 2010
not all women are skanks. it seems as though all the women YOU surround yourself with are, though. i guess it’s a good thing…. i’d pitty a good woman being stuck any where near you. just go finish licking the remains of lunch from tucker max’s rear and quit wasting peoples time. thank you much!
cristol e | Jan 10, 2010
i would suggest you change the location where you are looking for the type of women you say you seek. That would be scary for you I know. Think of places you do not want to go near. Then go there. Or are you just a coward who is all words but no action
tjdepere2003 | Jan 10, 2010
For one thing you don’t want to go sleeping around it will give you a bad name and on top of that it’s really dangerous,but you don’t have to wait tell marriage to have sex.you’ll know when you meet the right person .I didn’t used to want to be married with kids and and everyone used to say that to me I never really under stood but trust me be patient and it will happen.
Amanda L | Jan 10, 2010
i’m just going to be blunt buddy.
your view on women is disgusting,while some women are dirty trashed up who*res, not all of us are, you are far too judgemental.
waiting to be married before having sex/making love, whichever you rather call it, that night, is so damn special there are no words to describe it.
there ARE women out there that are virgins and will wait until they are married before having sex.
Just because you have not found these girls don’t mean they aren’t out there.
are the not so attractive girls not good enough for you? open your eyes abit buddy, they have qualities and you will never see them because they aren’t attractive enough. While you do need to be attracted to the person your with, they don’t have to be some capital barbie.
another thing, okay a girl is not a virgin (slept with 1 man) but is everything you want, are you going to reject her just because she isn’t a virgin? and women who are not virgins, can still be faithful to their husbands.
open your eyes abit more to the world….stop being so damn judgemental.
- Miss Awesome | Jan 10, 2010
Your problem is your crazy religious views.
If you are /not/ religious then you need to change your mindset.
If you are religious then you need to accept that the "virgin-whore" is clearly not something that happens in reality. A women that holds her body in chaste regard is not going to flaunt it.
There really is *no reason* for a man to marry today – it offers nothing but liability and your "shelf life" is longer than hers.
You would also be *insane* to marry as virgins.
Sexuality incompatibility is a huge issue in marriage, nearly 80% of marriages are sexually incompatible – and it’s not always the woman holding up the show. What if she turns out she’s a super-freak and you’re not really into anything and have a lower drive than her?
You should not marry until you’re about 30 and you should enjoy yourself in the mean time.
Take precautions and do not get anyone pregnant.
I am loathe to admit it, but I married young and I shouldn’t have and now we’re both stuck trying to make things work.
Mr. Fix It | Jan 10, 2010
You are a small fish in a big pond–this world. You have not seen it all or met everyone yet. Why the rush to get your life moving faster than you maker is allowing. You have ears to hear to stay a virgin and perhaps you need to continue to listen. As for the women you have met…sorry about that. There are plenty of good virgin women still out here…you just have to hold out for you to meet them. Stop generalizing ALL WOMEN ARE THIS AND THAT. It is not true. You have only met a few in your short lifetime. Live to be 50 and see if you still feel the same way. By then, you should have meet a few good women. You only need to make sure you are available for them when you do met them. Good luck with patience and maturing.
DEFINATELY BLESSED | Jan 10, 2010
http://www.chastity.com/node/401
cool_dude | Jan 11, 2010
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